As I get to know more of the people in our class, I've become convienced that others may suffer from the same problems that I have.
Sometimes I can play music at home, by myself, to my satisfaction. But when I come to class, and even in our practice groups, my abilities fall away to at least 50%. Then when we perform for the entire class, I play at maybe 30%, or like last week, considerably worse. My fingers are all jerky, and I can't find the strings with my pick; I look at my hands and wonder what I should be doing with them. My legs get all neverous and restless and I get totally distracted by the other players, or sometimes the audiance. I have had times when I was so intense that I forget to breathe and I got lightheaded. I hate to admit this but I have even been known to drool on my guitar on more than one occasion. I have come to the conclusion that I am having panic attacks, or if not an attack, at least a skirmish.
I was watching other players in class last night, and I believe I recognized some similar symptoms in other people.
I envey some of the other players in class that are so steady in their playing, like Sam, Silvia, and Claire, who don't seem to be bothered by anything. They just keep getting better and better.
Maybe we should band togehter and go for some group theopy or something, at least share our problems. I think I'm getting better. I have been working on remedies, and control, and breathing, and it has helped. I know that valium and cold medicine, especially when used together
works, but that's only a bandaid, and I need a cure. I know it makes me feel better when other people have the same problems I do. And it really makes me feel better when other people have problems that I don't,
so sharing could be a beautiful thing.
I would love to hear from you if you share any of these problems. Maybe we could work on them together, for all our good, and besides I could use some new guitar polish.
Larry